Momentum For Monday, April 8th 2024

“When Jesus heard about John, He left there privately in a boat and went to a secluded place. But when the crowds heard of this, they followed Him on foot from the cities.” (Matthew 14:13)

Last week, we talked about busy-ness and trying to be more still. But I heard something that addressed issue of busy-ness that I think is worth mentioning. So, this week, we'll make this part two about busy-ness so to speak.

There can be a facade of busy-ness that is done on purpose to protect ourselves from being known and vulnerable in community (or accountability for that matter).
I get this. I've done it. But I'm calling this out for our benefit and because there could be a danger in how we separate ourselves intentionally or what space we spend our time in (I talk a little about this in my latest book).

Whether it is done on accident or on purpose, solitude can create isolation. And there is a difference between the two. Solitude is done with godly, healthy boundaries. Isolation is done for ungodly, selfish ambition. And if we place ourselves in solitude too long, it can turn into isolation.

Jesus seemed to balance this really well. He gave a lot of time to ministry and being around the disciples, but he also made sure that he spent time to rest and be with God in prayer. This is the model for us all.

There's a time and place for solitude. As an individual that thrives on down time, I feel you, but we have to use wisdom and be honest with ourselves. Because as much as we need that chill time to recover, we also need people. It's a fine balance of the two. We have to stop hiding behind our schedules and start making time for community.

“He who [willfully] separates himself [from God and man] seeks his own desire, He quarrels against all sound wisdom.”

(Proverbs 18:1)